So when you’re feeling stuck on what you want – I want you to ask yourself this question:
What do I need to feel more secure about this?
‘Cause your motivator is always going to be your own internal security meter – but it’s not in a fear-based way. You’re naturally designed to care about this.
Do I have enough money. Do I have the right people supporting me. Do I have enough time for this. Do we have enough room in our week if I take this on.
It’s the contingency planning, thoughtful questioner, devil’s advocate side of “yes but have you considered this.
And that’s your superpower.
OK, so as a manifesting generator, you need to delegate what doesn’t light you up.
‘Cause you’re meant to have the internal battery power to work a full day doing a bazillion different things, then come home and have all kinds of different hobbies – but only if you have a bunch of different things you enjoy doing.
So you might be finding you don’t have enough things that you like going on – or that you’ve been trying to make yourself “focus” and “hone in” on just one thing (‘cause that’s the standard time management advice), when it’s totally wrong for you.
‘Cause that’s just the way you’ve been designed – to always have a lot of things on the go. Just something to sit with.
Now, you may or may not be able to change all that by saying “you need to have a bazillion more hobbies or find a bunch of different things to do,” but we can definitely make sure you’re aligning your work style with exactly what goes on during the day.
So for you, double check whether you’re working wherever you feel inspired – you don’t necessarily care about neat environments (or even regular work spaces that you return to day after day).
And you’re also going to want to have all these pre-chosen tasks and projects that you do every 10:30 on Tuesday or every Friday after lunch, for example. Your brain likes this kind of super structured, here’s when I do this, always consistent kind of schedule.
So don’t let anyone tell you you ought to be more “in flow” with your routine – that’s fine for them, it doesn’t work for you. Okay?
And the other thing your brain wants to do is to actually give yourself laid-out, step-by-step project plans or action steps for whatever that mood-chosen to-do is that you want to settle into.
So you’re very left brain about picking what you want to work on – and very left brain in terms of how you actually approach starting it. That make sense?
OK. So here’s what I’d recommend for you from here.
Depending on what all’s on your plate – like how much of the house load are you carrying, and if you have any special diets you’re responsible for managing….
There’s a lot that goes into just having the space in your day to set up these new routines now that you know your energy type – plus avoiding the mindset icebergs that keep sucking you right back into your old ways of doing things.
(You know, trying to focus on one thing at a time….)
‘Cause I gotta say, it’s amazing how much less you have to push and fight yourself to hit all these goals and projects for the quarter when you just scrap all the “standard” time management strategies, and start from the ground up building everything to suit you.
Which is the totally fun part, to me – junking all the “normal” advice on how you run your to-do list, manage your day, what kind of time you get for yourself, everything – ‘cause most of it is really absolutely counter to your Human Design nuances.
And there’s a ton of it – and I’m on a mission to change it.
Okay. So. Work with somebody (or multiple somebodies) to get that all figured out – doesn’t have to be me – we just want you to start getting all this turned around so you aren’t fighting yourself anymore.
(Now that you know you have absolutely zero reason to.)
And 6 months from now, what I’d love to hear from you is that you can’t even remember the last time you forced yourself into the old way of powering through your day anymore – ‘cause that’s how much your normal way of operating has changed for you.
So, I hope that gives you a liiiittle more clarity around what’s going on under the surface of this hobbies-and-home life, plus some lightbulbs around how you specifically are designed to operate.
‘Cause the fastest way for daily life to feel easy – no matter what’s on your plate week to week – is to show up for all of it in a non-draining way, every single day.
Okay, that’s all for now, and have a great day!
